Habits, oh those nasty habits. Habits are developed from training, influences, observation, and practice. We develop many habits throughout our life, some of which are good and others are bad. Good habits we can keep, but if you wants to improve your life the bad habits have to take a hike. Getting rid of bad habits however is not easy, especially if an addiction is involved. For this reason, we can take a few steps to learning how you can change your habits.
Making excuses:
People wander through life making excuses. Anytime a person sees something complicated, they will often make excuses why they cannot deal with the problem. This is just the way I am!! This is a common problem in the world, which we’ve all heard hundreds of times.
If you are out to improve your life however, you need to say, This is something that hinders me from achievement and I have the power to change it.
The first key to success is stop making excuses and learn how to tell the truth. The truth is the only answer that leads you to improve your personal life. Once you learn to tell the truth, you will need to commit yourself to learning new behaviours and habits.
You can commit by choosing a new habit. Today I plan to drink more water. Some of us detest water, yet water is our way of living healthier. Instead of detesting something that will save your life, start saying, today I will drink more water. Even if you start out drinking a glass for the first couple of days, you are making changes.
Today I am going to stop judging others and myself. This is a common mistake people make in the world. They spend time judging others and themselves. This gets them nowhere but in a world of chaos which is why you should change your ways. Judging is only for our Master in the sky.
Do you think negative thoughts? I can’t change this, my life is full of nonsense, I can’t swing it anymore. Why me? Who put a tag on my head, saying persecute me? If you spend your life thinking and saying negative thoughts, try changing your ways today. For instance, say, I can change and I am going to. Instead of saying life is full of nonsense, accept it as truth and move ahead to make your life better.
If you feel persecuted, ask yourself what you are doing that makes you feel this way. Do you have friends or family members weighing you down? If so, then kick their butt down the road and make new friends.
You have the power to make changes, yet you do not have the power to change other people.
When you start to make changes to improve your life, start small and take baby steps to success. Too many times people try to change overnight. This only leads to frustration.
When you are working to change your life and habits make sure you get support and feedback. You do not have to walk the road to success alone. Feedback can be found in a lot of ways including at your library, on the Internet, at colleges or even better ask someone you trust to support you and give you feedback when needed.
